Here is my short list of steps for digital control.
Basics
- Reject all cookies. Some sites make this
obnoxious, so I wind up
trying to avoid them if possible. The UK’s ICO
agrees.
- Unsubscribe from email you don’t want or need (or recognize!). Some email
clients (like GMail) can do this automatically for you: this is especially
handy when unsubscribe links
fail.
- Avoid autoplay and infinite scroll, like YouTube taking you to the next video
automatically. Disable them or avoid the site.
- Disable, deny, or mute unimportant notifications. Ditto for location services
and ads. (On iPhones, that’s usually in “Settings” under each application.)
- Report and delete unsolicited DMs or texts from strangers.
- Silence calls from unknown numbers (use your phone’s settings).
- Practice anti-phishing strategy: check URLs, look for signs of urgency. Here
are several informational sites to hone your strategy:
- Be mindful. Ask yourself: why am I reading, watching, or consuming this? Who
wrote or created it?
- Try an RSS
Reader:
instead of handing out your email address or social handle to have information
shoved at you, collect a list of links to follow for updates when you want
them. (Sound too good to be true, like the days when Facebook worked? RSS is
almost 26 years old as of this article.)
- Consider alternate browsers and search engines. Recent trends favor engines
like Ecosia and Kagi, as well as
browsers from Mozilla (though Firefox has
been under some fire
lately).
- Claw back privacy from invasive trackers. The EFF published a guide on how to
limit what Meta can do with your
data.
- Be aware of how much time you spend on individual sites (esp. the usual social
suspects like Twitter, Instagram, the cesspit that is
Facebook, YouTube, etc.)
- Practice skepticism. Many people have something to sell you: question
motivations. Study arguments and how and why they are made. Decide for
yourself if they are persuasive.
- Find self-awareness: listen to your emotional state as you consume. Are you
allowing media to exert pathos-directed influence on you? Why? If it’s
genuine, what action does this prompt?
- Use Linux. This is not nearly as hard as it used to be!
Ubuntu is the flagship for “user-friendly”
distributions, but you might be interested in other variants and
distributions. Get your local techie friends to help (make some if you
have to). According to Iris Meredith of
deadSimpleTech, so much surveillance happens
through operating systems today: relying on a system that won’t surveil you
gives you back control.
Advanced
- Invest in digital privacy. Use your local techie friends for these, too. This
usually becomes the costliest step financially, but should lead to the most
control. Remember, you don’t have to use most things you don’t want to, and
there’s often an analog route to what you seek.
- Use more open-source software. If it goes in a direction you dislike, you
always have the right to the source to build, modify, and run it yourself!
(This typically comes with an educational cost: you might have to learn to
build, modify, and run programs!) Corollary: avoid proprietary platform
lock-in. See for example Give Up
GitHub; I’ve been eyeballing
sourcehut for a while, personally.
Notes